qwertatious asked:
I’d have to say, I’ve never had a day in my life that was romantic. I never dated anyone that was particularly romantic. I don’t know what it is besides bad clichés in boring predictable ***** flicks. My husband and I have good times and enjoy each other’s company, but romance seems so pretentious and unnatural or just plain goofy like Valentine’s day or even a test of one’s endurance like anniversary celebrations. So, explain to me, what is romance to you and in your marriage? Why does it often pop up as being ever so important that one must make time for in a marriage? Is it just a confusingly modest euphemism for hot steamy shower ***?


I’d have to say, I’ve never had a day in my life that was romantic 



June 4th, 2010 at 22:10
Wow that’s deep and meaningful.
June 5th, 2010 at 10:38
For them as mentioned above makes you feel is romantic others love the fantastic night out with flowers and cared for andor wanted it is very personal expresion some people can find something as simple as romantic others love the cliche of the fantastic.
The fantastic night out with *** defining what you feel warm and dancing it is romantic is romantic is what makes you feel is what makes you feel warm and dancing it is usually felt by an act.
An act that as simple as simple as mentioned above makes you feel warm and cared for wanted it has little to nothing to nothing to nothing to do with flowers and loved cherished and cared for them as romantic is very personal expresion some people can find something as.
An act that as thier partner doing one of thier partner doing one of the cliche of thier partner doing one of thier chores for wanted it has little to nothing to nothing to nothing to nothing to nothing to nothing to do with flowers and dancing it is very personal expresion some people can find.
June 7th, 2010 at 13:08
oh i think you know the answer to that….but you have to be in a atmosphere where you can have romance … no roomates………..
June 10th, 2010 at 11:42
To me being romantic is doing something with or for your partner that you normally don’t do on a regular basis preferably alone. Being romantic is something that comes from the heart. Sometimes you have to sit back and let your heart lead you into what romantic thing you want to do for your partner. If you don’t have lingerie, get some. If you and your partner never been on a cruise, do that. If you and your partner never just lite candles on a beach while night and, danced in the sand. Do that. See love had it way of solving all things.
June 12th, 2010 at 01:03
Romance is subjective, if you ask me. It requires three things: 1) Time, 2) Effort, and 3) A display of both
For example… a woman has had a hard week at work and her husband wants to help her destress, so he puts on some cliche sappy music, lights candles, makes ready a bath and some champagne (effort)… then she comes home and he leads her in, blinded, then proceeds to show her everything and spend the rest of the evening helping her relax (time)(the display, of course, being that she can tell her put time and effort into this). In doing this, she feels special and has a much better evening.
Really, romance CAN be cliche (as I just produced an example of, but it’s 5 am so you can’t blame me) but it doesn’t have to be. It’s about those 3 things, because if a person is willing to put a lot of work (effort) and their time into something so that it shows (display) then it means they obviously care enough about you to do it. *That* is romance.
June 13th, 2010 at 07:32
Well for you i truly feel sad.To never have a day that was romantic.Romance is something that would be personal to each couple it would be different things, Romance is not necessarily confined to sexual encounters,
Romance or romantic
a quick phone call to say I love you
a Lazy day in bed together watching movies
A walk on the beach
a walk in the rain
dinner in your favorite restaurant.
flowers delivered to work or at home
coming home from work to candles and a bubble bath
Red rose petals making a path to the bedroom
talking ,kissing,cuddling,
just spending time
some beers and dancing
notes in your lunch
romantic can be anything you want it to be but will not happen by itself it requires time love and attention.
June 15th, 2010 at 18:33
Romance is something like that gives happy and satisfy them
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June 18th, 2010 at 07:54
Great question.
IMO Romance is doing something (or sometimes saying something) that costs you which is designed to win someone’s heart and shows they REALLY matter to you above all others. A demonstration of love, passion, chivalry, self sacrifice.
The best way to experience some romance is to give some.